Horny Christians: The Case for Sexual Immorality

Ever wonder what causes you to sin sexually?  And why certain sexual sins are repeated in your life over and over again even though you “know better”?  

  • Masturbation
  • Pornography (images & clips)
  • Pure physical/fondling relationships
  • Pre-marital sex
  • Friends with benefits
  • One night or should we say ‘7-11 minute’ stands
  • Hot pants, Mini-skirts, Swimsuits, Lingeries & half or more naked people
  • Beer, Parties/Clubs and ‘Un-remember-able or Don’t-want-to-remember sex’ 
  • 'Make-out' sessions (finger & oral) in the dark places.  

What does ‘all of the above’ have in common?  

"For out of the heart come … sexual immorality.” (Matt. 15:19)

They all come from our hearts.  To get this message through, let’s put it this way:

Our hearts “cum” sexual immorality.  

Is that clear?  It’s very important that you get this.  

Before your body engages in any sexual activity that is considered “sexually immoral”, your heart has already climaxed.  

The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; (Galatians 5:19)

It’s obvious.  

Your sinful nature is horny.  Very horny for anything but true love. It pants & lusts after anything that is sexually immoral.  It’s constantly masturbates & ejaculates sexual immorality.  

It also can’t help itself from getting nasty and very dirty.  It’s always ready to get down and engage in all kinds of ‘kinky’ behavior.  It also wants everyone else to be as nasty & dirty as they are.  It can’t stand purity or holiness.   

It also ‘debaucherizes’ and ultimately ‘enslaves’ itself to anything nasty, dirty and sexually immoral.  It no longer has sex.  It becomes a slave to sexual immorality.  

Again, to help you understand this very clearly:

Being a ‘Sexual Immoral Christian' is like having sex with satan with a condom on.  

It is you in your ‘Sinful Nature’, putting on a ‘Christian Condom' and engaging in sexual immoral behavior.  Your condom doesn't make you clean.  Your condom doesn't make anything right.  Your condom just kind of delays what is inevitably 'cum-ming'.  Your condom just kind of helps your avoid the penalties and consequences of your action, some of the time.  And last but not least, your condom just stimulates you & invites you to crave more.  

Do you now see why you fall into sexual sin?  Why you repeat the same sexual sin you resolved not to fall into?  

So here’s the issue:

You can’t decide or resolve yourself to purity & holiness.  You can’t decide “not to be horny”.  

You gotta get ‘circumcised' by God.  

What you need is a new heart and a new nature.

A heart that no longer cums sexual immorality, but a brand new heart that deeply desires more than anything else, an intimate & vibrant relationship with God.  A nature that no longer gets nasty, dirty and kinky, but a nature that delights & craves purity & holiness.  

"I[God] will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you.”  (Ez. 36:26)

Our bodies were not meant for sexual immorality (1 Cor. 6:13)  And ”It is God’s will that we be sanctified:  that we should avoid sexual immorality.”  (1 Thess. 4:3)  

Notice that this really difficult, seemingly all-too-religious word, Sanctification, comes first.  

We don’t avoid sexual immorality and therefore become sanctified.  

Rather, we are sanctified daily and therefore receive a new heart & a new spirit everyday that naturally shuns, avoids & runs away from sexual immorality.  

So, how do we daily become sanctified, or become holy?  That’s a question we’ll discuss in our next discussion together.  :)